By signing up for this free webinar, you’ll gain access to powerful tools and strategies that you can start using immediately to improve your relationship. This is the first step towards a more connected and fulfilling partnership.
Andrew and Melissa have spent over a decade working with couples to help them overcome challenges and build lasting, fulfilling relationships. As clinical psychologists and experienced relationship coaches, they bring a wealth of knowledge and practical insights that have transformed countless relationships.
Gain insights into the common reasons behind recurring conflicts in your relationship and how your brain and body react during these moments.
Explore the common reasons why couples fight and the science behind conflict in relationships.
Understand what happens in your brain and body during conflicts and why you get stuck in cycles of conflict and disagreement.
Discover practical tips and techniques for communicating with your partner in a way that fosters understanding and reduces tension.
Learn about the importance of empathy and intent in conversations.
Get a step-by-step process for resolving conflicts constructively. Learn how to create a healing space within your relationship where both partners feel heard and valued.
Learn about the comprehensive couples course and the exclusive benefits of joining our program.
Find out how you can save your relationship with expert guidance and ongoing support.
Cape Town
South Africa

Andrew didn’t just tell me what I wanted to hear; he challenged me to see how my actions were impacting our connections. It wasn’t always easy, but I felt a significant shift with every session. He has taught me not only to see things from another perspective but also to genuinely feel empathy in every relationship.
In my relationship with my wife and son, Andrew has guided me to truly come up to the surface and take a deep breath – literally, with the Wim Hof breathing technique to manage my stress and approach situations with a calmer perspective. This simple practice has made a world of difference in ho I communicate with my wife and connect with my son. His invaluable insights have been transformative.
Johannesburg
South Africa

If there is one thing that changed in my life, and that I try to implement everyday in my relationship and in life, it is EMPATHY.
To see my partner, not as the enemy, but as a teammate. And to approach the problem as a challenge, together, as a team.
It is not me against her but rather US against the problem.
And when I get triggered, take a step back, ask WHY and WHERE does it come from, communicate it to her so she knows my past better and then face the problem.
Sometimes the problem isn’t a problem anymore when I just communicate that I triggerd.
Pretoria
South Africa

Kintsugi: the ancient Japanese art of repairing cherished vessels with silver or gold-coated lacquer, beautifully encapsulates the essence of SHIP and TRT with Andrew Visagie. This approach is dedicated to equipping you with the resources and skills necessary to transform your jagged edges into shimmering highlights of silver and gold. Andrew Visagie provides and empathetic and supportive space, fostering growth and healing.
Through this transformative journey, I gained a new perspective, finding peace and a renewed sense of self. Just as Kintsugi turns broken pottery into works of art, SHIP and TRT helped me embrace my imperfections and rebuild my relationship into something stronger and more beautiful that before.
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